Special Edition Part 2: The Legacy of a Life Well Lived...

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Welcome back to this week’s edition of the newsletter.

Today, I’m sharing Part 2 of a special two-part tribute to my father-in-law, Hormoz, who sadly passed away last week.

When I became part of Hormoz’s family, I was often struck by his attitude, his actions, and the way he cared for those he loved.

Coming from a regimented upbringing, the close-knit nature of Hormoz’s family was something entirely new to me. A refreshing and inspiring contrast to what I had known.

Hormoz made it his mission to provide for, support, and uplift his family every single day.

I even wrote an article years ago on what it means to be a true family man, exploring the traits and qualities that define this role.

Looking back, I now realise that piece was only scratching the surface of what I was about to learn.

A few years ago, circumstances led Azi and me to stay with her family for six months. During this time, I had the privilege of observing Hormoz up close.

I watched him return home from work, immediately ask how everyone was doing, change into comfortable clothes, and seamlessly dive into housework or cooking without hesitation.

It amazed me.

Where did this energy and positivity come from, especially when I knew he was enduring significant hardships and setbacks?

Hormoz had an extraordinary ability to leave his worries at the door and fully immerse himself in his role as a husband and father.

Thinking back now, it led me to question why some people can effortlessly navigate this harmony while others come home drained, stressed, and disengaged.

Hormoz simply could not sit still. Even when we encouraged him to take a break, he would find something productive to do.

This gave me the chance to learn from him, to admire his way of life, and to adopt it as my own.

He taught me everything I know about tools, DIY, and home management. Before meeting him, my skills didn’t extend beyond changing a light bulb.

Yet, through his patient guidance and enthusiasm, I discovered how to handle repairs, maintenance, and more.

Hormoz never treated me as just a son-in-law.

From the very beginning, he made it abundantly clear that he saw me as his son.

In the 17 years I was fortunate enough to know him, I never once felt favouritism or imbalance in his love and support, whether toward me, my wife, or my brother-in-law.

He redefined what family means.

I often had the privilege of accompanying Hormoz on business trips, social outings, and errands. Each time, I was struck by his remarkable ability to connect with people.

Strangers quickly became comfortable in his presence, as he effortlessly struck up conversations, cracked jokes, and created an atmosphere of ease and camaraderie.

Hormoz had a rare gift for leaving a lasting positive impression on everyone he met. It’s a quality I deeply admire and strive to emulate in my own life.

In my work, I often reflect on the concept of legacy and its pivotal role in leadership.

To me, the ultimate leadership goal is to leave a legacy where people remember you positively for years to come and where they consider your actions and values when navigating their own challenges.

Hormoz exemplified leadership without a formal title. His empathy, kindness, and ability to simplify even the most complex situations made him a natural leader.

People were drawn to him because he made them feel seen, heard, and respected. Conversations with him were judgment-free, allowing anyone to speak openly on any subject.

He had an extraordinary talent for empowering others, reminding them of their strengths, and boosting their confidence. If those aren’t the hallmarks of a great leader, I don’t know what is.

Hormoz believed deeply in the value of learning, both through personal experience and from the wisdom of others.

Conversations with him were more than exchanges. You would come away from the conversation with new knowledge, a new way of thinking, and a reminder that maybe you’ve overcomplicated something, and more importantly, maybe you’ve left empathy out.

Even in business, his approach was rooted in fairness and relationship-building.

Hormoz was unwavering in his commitment to ensuring a “fair deal.” He made it a point to leave every customer fully satisfied, prioritising their interests over short-term gains or one-off transactions.

People trusted him because he genuinely cared about their well-being, not just the bottom line.

Hormoz believed true influence comes from integrity, empathy, and the ability to inspire others to see the best in themselves.

Over the past week, I’ve received countless calls from individuals whose lives were profoundly touched by Hormoz.

They’ve shared heartfelt sentiments such as, “I owe him my life,” “He was there for me when I had no one else,” “He guided me through a very difficult decision,” and “He was instrumental in helping me advance my career.”

Many have expressed how his wisdom and kindness helped them navigate their toughest moments.

One request struck me deeply, a group of his friends asked to keep his phone active so they could call and let it ring when they missed him.

This simple gesture speaks volumes about his impact on those who knew him.

Hormoz was an extraordinary man, a devoted husband, and a loving father.

His legacy is nothing short of remarkable, a legacy of purity, kindness, and an angelic presence that I was fortunate enough to witness firsthand.

Hormoz would turn 65 this month.

Though he was my father-in-law, he was much more than that to me.

He was a father in every sense of the word.

His influence, love, and example will remain a guiding light in my life.

I will miss him deeply and hold his memory close to my heart for the rest of my life.

Thank you for taking the time to read this tribute.

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