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The One Fundamental Skill That Will Supercharge Your Work-Life Harmony

No, It’s Not About Waking Up Earlier!

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Welcome to our bi-weekly newsletter dedicated to helping senior leaders achieve work-life harmony.

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Key Highlights:

  • Why Self-Awareness Matters

  • The First Step to Harmony: Look Inward

  • Case Study: How Self-Awareness Helped a Senior Leader

  • Practical Tips to Improve Self-Awareness

  • The 5-minute Self-Awareness Challenge

Let’s Reflect:

Ever feel like you're juggling too many responsibilities without knowing what's truly important?

Do any of the following sound familiar?

  • You're always saying "yes" to work, even when you're overwhelmed.

  • You constantly push back or miss out on personal moments because work always comes first.

  • You feel disconnected from what truly matters to you despite your professional success.

Insight: Why Self-Awareness Matters

Work-Life Harmony, in essence, isn’t about ‘perfect scheduling’.

It’s about making intentional choices that align with your values and who you are.

When you're self-aware, you better understand your:

  • Priorities: What is important to you both personally and professionally.

  • Strengths: Your strengths and how to make the most of them.

  • Limitations: Understanding when to set boundaries to protect your well-being.

With this understanding in hand, you can make choices that contribute to your overall well-being and success.

"The key to work-life harmony is understanding your limits and strengths and aligning them with the choices you make every day."
Arianna Huffington

The First Step to Harmony: Look Inward

Before you can make harmony a reality in your life, you need to define what it means to you.

Is a fast-paced work environment your thing, but you need some quiet in the evening to recharge?

Or are you someone who enjoys being creative but needs time alone to think?

The more you understand yourself, the easier it is to set boundaries, say “no” to what doesn’t benefit you, and make space for what does (more on saying NO in a later entry).

Instead of reacting to external pressures, you start leading your life with purpose.

This is where self-awareness is key.

Reflection Time: Pause for a moment and think about what Work-Life Harmony looks like for you. What are you comprising or sacrificing?

The Power of Full Engagement: Managing Energy, Not Time, Is the Key to High Performance and Personal Renewal

This book explores how managing energy and being self-aware of personal and professional needs are essential for achieving work-life harmony.

I highly recommend it!

Case Study

When Tom, a Senior VP at a global hospitality company, came to me, he was successful at work but overwhelmed in life.

His 70+ hour workweek had strained his health and family relationships, leaving him feeling disconnected despite his career achievements.

Through our coaching, Tom discovered that his problem wasn’t time management—it was a lack of self-awareness.

He realised he had been neglecting key areas of his life that truly mattered.

Once he identified his priorities, he started setting clear boundaries and aligning his work and life more intentionally.

In just six months, Tom transformed his routine.

He reduced his hours, reconnected with his family, and regained his energy—all while maintaining his leadership role.

By focusing on self-awareness, Tom was able to create lasting harmony between his work and personal life.

P.S. This isn’t Tom :-)

Quick Note: Schedule Your Free 30-Minute Clarity Call

If you're a senior leader looking to maximise your potential and achieve work-life harmony without burnout, my specialised coaching can help. I've assisted leaders in some of the world's elite organisations.

Practical Steps to Improve Self-Awareness Today

Daily Reflection

  • Spend 5 minutes each day noting what energised you and what drained you.

Seek Feedback

  • Ask colleagues or friends for input on your strengths and areas for improvement.

Monitor Your Emotions

  • Pay attention to recurring feelings of stress or dissatisfaction as signals that something needs adjustment.

Over To You: The 5-Minute Self-Awareness Challenge

For the next two weeks, take 5 minutes at the end of each day to reflect on:

  1. What gave me energy today?

  2. What drained my energy today?

Keep a simple journal or use your phone's notes app. By the end of the two weeks, you'll notice patterns that can help you make impactful adjustments toward greater harmony in your work and personal life.

Try it out, and let me know how it goes!

Share Your Thoughts

Do you have personal experiences or reflections on self-awareness and work-life harmony that you'd like to share? Hit reply, and let's start a conversation.

How Else I Can Help

Based on my senior leadership experience, I also offer consulting services to individuals and organisations. I am available for speaking engagements, including events, keynotes, podcasts, and course recordings, on leadership development and work-life harmony.

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